Teenager Coaching
The complexities and the ever increasing pace of technology and life as a whole have taken the toll on teenagers’ happiness and sanity. This has often led to lack of confidence, getting into the wrong peer groups, getting bullied, taking to drugs and alcohol, and fall in the performance in school.
It is imperative that teenagers lead an empowering life in the transition period from children to adulthood as this will determine their performance during the rest of their life.
Four Candles Teenage Coaching specialises in them leading an awesome life from within and grooming them for self leadership in the years to come.
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• Exam Coaching • Abusive Substance Coaching • Peer Group Coaching
• Confidence Coaching • Dealing With Bullies Coaching • Obesity
Exam Coaching
Four Candles have coached many teenagers to be mentally and otherwise at their peak at the time of their exams.
The aim here is that they de-clutter from any negative thoughts and replace them by empowering beliefs.
They should enter the exam room full of confidence and beliefs in their minds that’ this is the day when I get to show that I am a true winner.’
Exam Coaching should ideally start at Easter or 6 – 8 weeks prior to the exams to positively coach the teenagers for revision period as well as exams.
Exam coaching is also very powerful for eliminating any exam phobias.
Abusive Substance Coaching
Drugs and alcohol abuse amongst teenager is at it’s highest levels and the trend is not getting any better. The parents of the teenagers we have coached never believed it would happen to them. It is imperative to coach teenagers taking drugs to come out of the habit straight away before the problem becomes far, far worse.
One third of the crime in UK is drugs related and many of these are committed by young offenders. The worst case scenarios is teenagers start with one intake because ‘it’s cool,’ end up committing crime to afford the addiction, getting criminal record and taking their own lives and
ruining others.
Drugs has also led to sharp increase mental illness amongst teenagers. Binge drinking is also getting out of control with teenagers. Alco-pops and ‘tasty’ cheap alcohol means large consumption in short period. This has led to health problems and crime rate shooting up amongst young peer groups.
At
Four Candles Coaching, we coach people to come out of the damaging cycles caused by drugs and replace them addictive beliefs on harmful substances with empowering self beliefs of living an awesome and happy life without the need of any external harmful substances. This is then followed by coaching the teenagers towards a truly heroic future for themselves and for them to be a true leader from within.
Peer Group Coaching
‘Love Your Family, Chose Your Peer Group’ Tony Robbins
The quality of your life is a direct reflection of the quality of your peer group. For a teenager it is vital that they are in a peer group of winners or that they themselves be leaders in the peer groups to create a winning team. Far too many young people have thrown away their potential and happiness by getting involved in the wrong groups.
One of the major reasons why drugs and alcohol problem amongst teenagers is at epidemic levels is because few peer group members tells them ‘
it’s cool to take it.’ It’s easy to say ‘
I have brought my child up properly.’ I heard the same from the teenagers on drugs that I have coached.
Four Candles Coaching empowers teenagers to chose the right peer group, play a leadership part in the peer group and individually and as a team be winners and achievers in life.
Confidence Coaching
The minds of many teenagers have been bombarded by so many negative externals that their confidence levels have taken
a battering.
Four Candles Coaching enables teenagers to recognise and filter out negative influences and replace them with empowering beliefs and conditioning that will not be effected by their external environment.
It will also bring the best out of their internal leadership and be an awesome external leader. This is an inside out approach that will continue to strengthen their confidence for the rest of their lives.
Dealing with Bullies Coaching
How do you stand up to bullies in life? By being the best that you can be from inside.
Remember bullies bully because they are internally very weak. And they pick on people that are internally even weaker.
To defeat them externally may be difficult and you may end up as bad as them if you are internally not strong.
Four Candles Coaching will share with you the secrets of people who got bullied and became world leaders. We will coach you how to be the best that you can be from within and how to stand up to bullies internally and externally.
Obesity
Officially, according to government figures, 1 in 5 children are obese. The problem with obesity relates not only to health but also but increased bullying in school, confidence issues and peer group problems.
These can lead to bigger problems in future like illegal substance abuse and more serious health issues in future. With other related issues, it is common for a person to go on a downward spiral of comfort eating to temporarily feel good and these leads to further ‘fattening’ of the child and further related issues.
At Four Candles, we get teenagers to get motivated to break the downward cycle and start an upward cycle of healthy diet and exercise and on building self confidence to live an empowered life.